is it a hype to break another person's heart these days ? I wonder.. a few friends were at the receiving end of such treatments. 3 has in fact talked to me about this since sunday ... i have drew some conclusions from these 3 different friends and their experiences. Usually the girls would think that they are at fault whenever something deterimental happens to their relationships. I beg to defer as too many factors are involved here. (oh the complexity of the human mind) One's mind is like a parachute, it is functional only when it is open, thus if they mind and heart is already set and whatever that was told to them was just translated to 'yada yada yada' by their puny minds, what can thou do? I understand the fact that i am merely standing on the outside looking in and i aint in any of your positions, thus i should not be giving any opinions. But believe me, one day one guy/girl will be glad that the fellow u went out with previously were blind enough to have even let you go.. so cheer up now would you =)