Tuesday, December 25, 2007

The wicked turth

Women, fairly or unfairly, are judged on their looks, and men, fairly or unfairly, are judged on their money, their power and their status. When a guy is rich and/or hes famous, and he is powerful it makes him more appealing than a cleaner of similar age, build and looks.

If a girl goes for a guy who is rich (maybe say she has pursued him), is she in it for the money? Maybe yes, maybe no, and u know what? Maybe, maybe that's ok, really. And you know what else? That very fact doesn't preclude the possibility that the girl is also truly in love with that guy. But can a girl fall in love, truly in love, if she was initially attracted to a guy for his money/power? Let rephrase this abit to show how ridiculous that question is, "Can someone fall in love, really in love, if he was initially attracted to a woman for her legs?" No one doubts the answer to the second question is yes. A physical attraction can bring two people together and, if the pair is compatible, lead to a lasting love.

Insisting that it's simply not possible for a girl to really love a guy whose wealth caught her eye is sexist. Its "male-ish" to say that only the size/number of a guy's pecs or or the shape of girl's rear end can inspire a genuine attraction, whereas obscene wealth always inspires only money-grubbing.Well, wealth can indeed inspire a certain degree of gold-digging, but that's not always the case. To determine whether someone who was initially attracted to you for whatever reason sincerely loves you requires emotional insight and the advice of good friends.

However, if you have this thought in mind, "that the girl is out for your money", right from the beginning. How long would any relationship of yours last? Althought there are black sheeps aplenty outta, guys just be on your guard and yes do heed your friends' advices...